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What to Do When Negativity Knocks

Or How to Stay Positive When You Don’t Feel It

Most business owners know by now that you have to stay positive to make it in business. It’s been revealed that how you think affects your outcomes. See books such as Napoleon Hill’s Think and Grow Rich, Norman Vincent Peale’s The Power of Positive Thinking and Oprah’s favorite, The Secret by Rhonda Byrne.

But what can you do when you’re just not feeling it? When there just seems to be a black cloud hanging over your head that no amount of positive thinking can dispel? When you wake up and just know it’s all going to come crashing down?

Sometimes, those negative thoughts and feelings come unexpectedly, out of the blue, for no seemingly good reason. At other times, perhaps you’ve been sitting on the precipice of doom, with one bad move following another. No matter where they come from or how based in reality they are, it’s imperative to your health, happiness and success that you find a way to stay positive no matter what.

Start Questioning the Origin

It helps to look for a logical reason for why you can’t seem to stay positive, whether it’s just one negative day or several weeks’ worth of spreading darkness. Begin with some basic questions. You may find a common source of negativity, which may include:

Dig Deeper

Negativity and pessimism seem to be built into some people. Perhaps character flaws that you’ve lived with all your life are keeping you from the ability to stay positive and overcome the bouts of catastrophizing you may be going through. Those deep-seated beliefs most likely have been with you from childhood or developed as a survival mechanism to help you get through troubling times. Negative personalities share a number of characteristics, such as:

If you fall into any of these categories, it may be wise to invest in a good therapist to help you work out the kinks left over from childhood that aren’t serving you well anymore. Self-help books and groups where people help each other overcome negative thinking and behavior can be helpful.

Moving On

No matter how much you change, sleep or eat, there still are going to be days when the black harbinger of doom sits on your bedpost just waiting for you to get up so he can tell you how bad it’s going be. To stay positive and deal with those now occasional days of darkness, fill your toolbox with tips to get and keep you on track so that you can put your thinking cap on straight. It’s really no secret that when you stay positive, you act positive to your best end. (And everyone around you benefits too.)

The next time you have trouble finding a way to stay positive, consider:


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