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COVID-19 and the Upside-Down World

Remaining Sane and Healthy in Crazy Times

It’s difficult to impossible to write a normal blog post when the world may be coming to an end — at least according to some people. In the age of community journalism, it’s difficult to separate the truth from the rumors and flat-out misinformation.

Is the population being culled so only the strong survive? Did the government plant this little bug on societies around the world to show us who’s the boss? Do politicians have even bigger secrets than we ever imagined? And is social distancing really a thing?

In the upside-down world of the COVID-19 pandemic, stay sane with help from your friends at Ray Access.

Boiling It Down

Just a few weeks ago, we were told that we’re becoming a society of isolationists, what with our social media addictions and reliance on technology. Mental illness and mass shootings were being blamed on people not being hugged enough and for listening too long to internet trolls.

Today, we’re told not to touch, to go online for any human interaction and to rely on social media for our personal interactions. Meanwhile, many pundits and politicians are taking advantage of the coronavirus plague to boost themselves as saviors with golden tickets and lifesaving cures.

The only sane step for those of us who believe we still have free will and an ability to think critically is to find the kernels of truth to believe, while trusting our instincts to survive. In fact, many of the measures we’re asked to take are just good practices for any day of any year, such as:

  • Wash your hands after being in public
  • Don’t kiss strangers
  • Stay away from contagious sick people
  • Boost your immunity with healthy foods
  • Exercise and get plenty of rest to stay in tip-top health

How to Get Right-Sided

When you live in an upside-down world, all the blood rushes to your head, threatening to make you dizzy at the very least — or make your head explode at the very worst. In these dystopian times when we’re told not to trust anyone, to only visit friends and family online, and to stay home alone to obsess over the latest news and statistics, it’s important to find your true north.

To maintain your sanity and your good health, we recommend that you just take a beat, breathe deeply and relax. There’s lots of good advice for how to weather the upside downiness of it all:

  • Clean your closets and your computer files
  • Work in the yard to plant flowers or tidy up
  • Join exercise classes online and Zoom in with your besties

But it may take a bit more to ride this thing out to its final destination when the world turns back on its own right-sided axis. Until that happens, perhaps one of these ideas can keep you from tipping over so far that it may be hard to get right again:

  • Respect everyone’s right to choose. As if there isn’t enough on TV to get all worked up about, don’t add to your stress by freaking out about how others, including your loved ones, choose to react. Know that everyone responds to disaster differently. Some may feel the need to shelter in place, while others prefer to be out where they’re still able to go. Take care of yourself and your family as best as you know how and allow your friends, families, neighbors and colleagues to do the same without sending your stress levels through the ceiling.
  • Share your good fortune. While it’s unhealthy to always compare ourselves to others to measure our own success, this may be the best time to practice a little comparison, because chances are you have it better than many others. And you’ll get by with one less roll of TP if it means your neighbor gets one roll from your stockpile. Just as the COVID-19 virus pays it forward by making people sick, so the world heals by paying forward the little things — one roll at a time.
  • Follow your instincts. If it sounds crazy, it probably is. Getting worked up about conspiracies and doomsday predictions is worse for your health in the long — and short — run than any super-bug. When you hear so-called news that just doesn’t ring true for you, then make up your mind not to buy it. You can bet that one thing is not upside down right now — and that’s the fact that shysters and fear-mongers are in their glory, and they’re out in full force. Don’t believe everything you read and don’t get taken by scammers who use this fearful time to boost their own bank accounts.
  • Go easy on yourself. If you happen to wake up one morning in the full grip of fear, know that it’s OK to spend the whole day under the covers crying. When a day goes by and you’ve done nothing but binge-watch Netflix, give yourself a break and let it be. If you turn to comfort food for a day and find yourself eating mashed potatoes and fried bread for dinner and consuming an entire half-gallon of ice cream for dessert, don’t beat yourself up. As long as your unhealthy habits are sporadic responses to stress for a day or two, it won’t hurt nearly as bad as the self-loathing that accompanies the splurges.

Balance, flexibility and moderation are the key principles that help get you through each day. And while you may stress out about three days: yesterday, today and tomorrow, we still have only one day to live at a time: this one. So live it to the best of your ability. Don’t worry about what happened yesterday and realize tomorrow will come soon enough.


Ray Access is a content marketing firm that delivers targeted words to empower your business to succeed. Contact us about your specific project to receive a quote. We write website copy, blog posts, e-newsletters, and more. Everything we do is thoroughly researched, professionally edited and guaranteed original.

Deadline Junkies

Here’s How to Manage Your Deadline Junkies

Not all junkies use drugs. Junkies, loosely defined, refers to anyone addicted to a substance, like food or drugs, or to a habit, like exercising or driving fast. Junkies live for the thrill, the rush of adrenaline that comes from practicing their addiction. And there is no greater addiction for deadline junkies than madly working and hitting their deadlines just in the nick of time.

Deadline junkies are always checking the time.

Deadline junkies share certain characteristics, such as:

  • Obsessive planning around various deadlines
  • Procrastinating because they know they can
  • Waiting until the last minute to complete tasks
  • Using deadlines as motivation
  • Feeling energized as the due date approaches
  • Functioning best when the clock is ticking
  • Stressing out over interruptions at deadline time

Deadline Junkies’ Pros and Cons

If you’re a deadline junkie, you’re very aware of that big red circle on your calendar that indicates when a project is due. Unfortunately, life doesn’t always follow your timelines; it sometimes interferes with your carefully laid-out plans. While some people get sick with worry about the stress of a deadline — and the potential threats to getting it done on time — deadline junkies feed off that stress.

Deadline junkies don’t miss their marks. Others who don’t respect the deadline as much as a junkie, however, too often dismiss due dates as mere suggestions. A deadline junkie engraves those dates in stone, and God help the person who gets in the way.

Creativity vs. Completion

There are those who claim that creativity goes out the window when the deadline becomes more important than the quality of the finished project. But deadline junkies argue back that their muse lives in those shades of static electricity that seem to emanate from their brains as deadlines loom. While some proclaim that their creativity doesn’t work on a schedule, deadline junkies declare that their senses become even more heightened at just the thought of making a deadline.

They don’t wait for the “mood to strike;” they’re sure it will strike when they need it most. Stress for deadline junkies is intimately intertwined with the creative process. Without a deadline, they flounder and find it difficult to focus. On the other hand, they sometimes are so devoted to the due date that they become closed to options and new ideas.

Finding a Balance

Your clients always appreciate your commitment to meet their deadlines, and they usually don’t really care about how much stress you endured to meet their timetables. But what if they could get an even better product because you’re more focused on the quality of your work than on its due date?

If you believe you fall under the spell of the calendar and find that you regularly wait until the last minute to complete projects — especially because you live for the adrenaline rush — there are ways to manage your condition and still reap the benefits that deadline junkies live for. To find a balance between waiting until you’re in the mood and living on the edge, consider these tips:

  • Set deadlines with built-in room to spare. You’d be surprised how you can feel the excitement of meeting a self-imposed deadline and still have the time to make adjustments, add additional input and make your completed project even better.
  • Choose deliverables that don’t require your ultimate best to make a client happy. Use those projects to get your “fix.” Place other projects that may require more thoughtfulness outside of the harried, adrenaline-inducing deadline process. Work on them when you feel particularly creative.
  • Break a project up into shorter mini-deadlines so you can experience the rush of hitting the mark while building in time for each stage, time for collaboration with others who may not share your passion for deadlines and time to just take it easy as you reach the finish line.
  • Manage employees accordingly. If you have some that enjoy the thrill of the deadline and understand its importance, then by all means, give them space to work. If you have other, more laid-back employees, check in on their progress and make adjustments to their workload when necessary.
  • Tame your inner beast with relaxation techniques like deep breathing or slow walks outdoors so that the stress you bring on yourself at deadline time doesn’t interfere with the quality of work you produce. Prepare for deadlines with sufficient sleep and healthy meals. Let others know when you’re on deadline and won’t appreciate interruptions.
  • Partner with a peer who doesn’t share your addiction to adrenaline rushes. Give each other permission to poke and prod when necessary. Make sure it’s OK to point out when the other’s character is out-of-whack so you can meet a deadline and not lose your clients’ trust. You want them to know that you have their best interests in mind at all times — deadline or not.

Ray Access is a content marketing firm that delivers targeted words to empower your business to succeed. Contact us about your specific project to receive a quote. We write website copy, blog posts, e-newsletters, and more. Everything we do is thoroughly researched, professionally edited and guaranteed original.

The Power of the Compliment Sandwich

The Pros and Cons of the Compliment Sandwich

The compliment sandwich is a tool you can use to soften the blow of criticism. People, including your peers and employees, often cringe at criticism (unlike professional writers, who relish feedback). But when you learn to use this sandwich technique properly and in the right situations, you’ll discover it’s an effective way to get your negative remarks across while you:

  • Leave the other person’s feelings intact
  • Keep their ego unbruised
  • Avoid acquiring a reputation as a jerk
  • Appear encouraging rather than disparaging

However, there’s always the risk that your compliment sandwich falls flat, especially when it’s insincere. Don’t use it to hide your criticism in a veiled attempt at savings someone’s feelings. Above all, be honest, or your attempt may cause the opposite of your intended effect — and make you out to be an even bigger jerk.

A Good Sandwich

A tasty sandwich is made with two pieces of good quality bread or inside a soft, mouth-watering bun. It’s typically filled with hearty items like cheese, soy protein or meat — and piles of condiments and complementary vegetables. Think of a juicy steak burger on a delectable, fresh-baked artisan bun with lettuce, tomato, onion, mustard and relish.

Ray Access believes in the power of the compliment sandwich as much as the power of a hamburger

A proper compliment sandwich is composed of a meaningful compliment on the bottom, followed by a substantial and practical critique or flavorful advice, topped off by concise, worthwhile praise. And while the bun should be warm and appetizing, it needs to be strong enough to hold the sometimes slippery ingredients that sit in between. Maintain the integrity of the compliment sandwich by ensuring all the ingredients are related and go together well.

A Bad Sandwich

Not too many diners appreciate peanut butter and jelly on a burger. Likewise, few believe that a harsh criticism lodged between two superfluous, unrelated compliments is very palatable either. A poorly delivered compliment sandwich leaves the recipient more confused than motivated. Too often, it feels like the proverbial back-handed compliment — which is just as dangerous when delivering negative feedback. A bad sandwich leaves you with someone who’s not very receptive to your feedback.

When you’re served a bad sandwich in a restaurant, you’re usually going to do one of three things:

  1. Send it back
  2. Leave it on the plate untouched
  3. Throw it out

The same is true of taking a bite out of a compliment sandwich — if you take a bite at all. You may go on the offensive and send back the offensive remarks, totally ignore the entire statement or toss it in a pile of useless information that eventually ends up in the trash.

Sandwich Delivery

It behooves you to think about the contents of your compliment sandwich before you deliver it. For example, a staffer creates a new website that has some striking flaws that need to be fixed before you can present it to the client. You can be direct and brutally honest (as some management gurus suggest) and say to your developer:

“I can’t give this mess to the client, fix the content and the layout and get it back to me by the end of the day.”

You can try a slapped together compliment sandwich:

“Your work area is so clean today. This website sucks. But you’ve really been doing well to get to work on time lately.”

Or you can give it a little thought. Look for what the website developer did right first and think about qualities she has that you admire. With the bun in hand, you might say:

“The graphics on this site are amazing. I especially like the charts you inserted. But the rest of the content falls flat and doesn’t say what we need the reader to hear. It kind of jumps around too, making it hard to follow. I know you can fix this in no time because you want to make sure the client is really satisfied. I look forward to your revisions.”

The Final Review

The developer may not like what she hears. After all, she thought she had nailed it and was done. But she’s not completely defeated and feels like she got some praise for her hard work. And if she really does care about her work — and about pleasing you and the client, she’ll give it her best to make the corrections you pointed out.

Used wisely, the compliment sandwich serves its purpose. The person to whom you’re providing the feedback hears what you’ve said and takes it in context. You’ve framed your criticism with compliments and provided specific feedback for the person to add a little polish and shine it up. You’re considered thoughtful and kind, while maintaining your high quality expectations. Forgive the cliche, but that’s a win-win.


Ray Access is a content marketing firm that delivers targeted words to empower your business to succeed. Contact us about your specific project to receive a quote. We write website copy, blog posts, e-newsletters, and more. Everything we do is thoroughly researched, professionally edited and guaranteed original.

How to Give an Effective Compliment

Are Your Compliments Backfiring on You?

Everyone loves getting compliments. And they can be very useful as you try to win friends and influence people. So while you try to insert compliments into your repertoire, be careful how you throw them around; don’t abuse the power of the compliment. For when the people around you get used to the two poles of “suck up” or “put down,” that power can turn against you.

The power of a compliment can be used for good or bad, often unintentionally.

A sincere compliment does its job and does it well. In fact, the power of the compliment, when given in the spirit of true admiration, is immeasurable. A well-placed real compliment:

  • Shows a level of respect that’s hard to dispute
  • Acknowledges the receiver as someone of significance
  • Leaves the other person with a lasting impression that they can draw upon on dark days
  • Affords you a true sense of humility
  • Builds trust
  • Puts everyone, including you, in a positive frame of mind

Beware False Starts

You’ve most likely heard that communication is largely made up of body language and tone of voice — to the tune of about 85 percent! Most people aren’t tone deaf to insincerity and dishonesty. The power of a compliment given in haste, with little thought to the truth, carries equal amounts of distrust, negativity and disrespect.

Instead of feeling grateful for your attention, the receiver of a backhanded compliment or one that obviously is not sincere just leaves the person feeling annoyed and even resentful. Instead of garnering goodwill, as you’d hoped the power of the compliment would deliver, you end up being the boy (or girl) who cried wolf. In other words, the next time you offer your appreciation, it’s going to be received with an air of doubt by those who received that previous misguided compliment.

Consider the Source

Make sure you’re using the power of the compliment for good and not to put someone in their place or make yourself look superior. So consider your motivation for extending the approval. You could ask yourself the three questions that circulate as social media memes on a regular basis:

  • Is it true?
  • Is it kind?
  • Is it useful?

If you answer “yes” to all three, then use the power of the compliment with a deft touch and beware of falling into one of categories below before finally letting it rip:

  1. Patronizing. The definition of “to patronize” is to be helpful, and when you adopt this form of compliment, you may have answered yes to all the ethical questions and truly have your heart in the right place. It’s usually the delivery that falls short for some reason. Since you know the power of the compliment, you may believe that it actually may help someone feel better about themselves. At the same time, however, you feel slightly better than that person and at least a little superior. And it shows in your tone as you talk down to him or her. A patronizing compliment may actually be a sibling of the South’s well-known put-down of “Bless your heart.”
     
  2. Too Frequent. For many people, once they discover the power of the compliment, they wear the heck out of it. And subsequently it wears out its usefulness. Too many compliments delivered too often actually begin to have the opposite effect. Think about when you truly enjoyed a fine, expensive piece of chocolate on Valentine’s Day and because it was so good, decided to eat 10 pieces every day. It soon loses its specialness and may even make you sick.
     
  3. Not Quite Appropriate. Sometimes, you may have to struggle to find something nice to say to certain people. But you still want to exact the results that come from a well-placed compliment. You know it needs to be sincere, but you don’t know exactly what to say. Be very careful about complimenting people about certain subjects unless you know them intimately — like the fit of their clothes, their weight, their latest facelift, their choice in partners or any other intimate topic that could land you in HR with a harassment charge. Shoot instead for safe topics such as work-related efforts on the job, their handling of a difficult situation or their cooking.
     
  4. Unclear and Questionable. The last thing you want is to waste the power of the compliment on an ambiguous statement that allows you to feel great about yourself, but leaves the other person scratching her head. For example: “I finally get to read well-written copy,” may in fact be heard as “You’ve been delivering crap all this time.” If the endorsement may be taken as an insult in disguise, rephrase it so it’s clear and unmistakably positive with something like: “After reading everyone else’s poor submissions, it’s refreshing to read your great copy.”
     
  5. From the Heart. While the power of the compliment offers great benefit to the giver, when it’s delivered with no ulterior motive, you can usually be sure it’s from the heart. Rarely is the sentiment taken wrong when it’s clear you have nothing to gain by giving it. In fact, you may not even feel the same flood of endorphins that the receiver of your praise gets from a sincere compliment. But know that you are building a well of goodwill and respect from those on the receiving end of your honest acknowledgements.

Ray Access is a content marketing firm that delivers targeted words to empower your business to succeed. Contact us about your specific project to receive a quote. We write website copy, blog posts, e-newsletters, and more. Everything we do is thoroughly researched, professionally edited and guaranteed original.

Are You Charging Enough in Your Business?

Find the Sweet Spot in How Much to Charge

Balance how much to charge

This topic may not seem in line with the theme of the month, which is “Give Compliments Freely,” but it really is. The conundrum of figuring out how much to charge for your work is full of innuendo and flat-out esteem issues. For if you can’t compliment yourself for a job well done and charge accordingly, then why should anyone else praise your efforts and pay you accordingly?

In a politically correct world, many assume that it’s just not polite to admire yourself too much. Self-adulation often is construed as egotism or self-aggrandizing behavior. In fact, it’s a necessary and healthy ingredient in the mix of a successful web designer, content writer, project manager or small business owner.

What the Market Will Bear

In the field of web development — and for everyone who works within the industry — fees for services vary widely. When you seek answers for how much to charge from an LA or NYC business, you’ll get a wildly different answer than from someone working in the middle of Missouri. Even within the same locale, fees for web content of every kind swing up and down like a monkey in the trees, at least based on our experience at Ray Access.

So while business schools always advise you to investigate the marketplace and base your fees on what that market will bear, that’s not always a reliable measuring stick when it comes to web development or content writing. For one thing, most of us can work from anywhere in the world. We have a writer, for instance, who lives in Costa Rica half the year; he says our rate of pay allows him to live like a king there, but barely covers his rent back home.

Your competition hails from around the world, too. Content writers in India, for example, charge much, much less than Ray Access for similar word counts — and Ray Access offers one of the lowest rates in the U.S. Granted, the quality is never as good, but some clients shop only for bargains. At the same time, great writers in Kansas can charge less than great writers in San Francisco merely by virtue of the cost of living at the different locations.

What You Can Bear

Instead, how much to charge for your web services should be based on two primary indicators:

  1. How much do you need?
  2. How valuable is your product or service?

Most website content developers and providers charge by the project. Clients have an easier time with their website budgets when they have a total cost projection in hand. And you aren’t plagued by a client bothering you about going over budget. Common wisdom then supposes that you should figure out how much to charge by first deciding how much you need to make per hour of hands-on work to pay your bills, including coverage for overhead.

It may take a little experience to get right, but the second step involves determining how long a certain project will take you. Multiply those hours by your needs and that’s the bottom line figure for how much to charge.

Show Your True Value

Putting your true value into the equation takes a bit more finesse, as well as an ability to negotiate effectively. A bottom line should be just that — the least amount you can receive and still stay in business. So if you have to earn an average of $50 an hour to live comfortably and continue to run your business effectively, then you really need to charge enough to cover that need or you’ll soon be out of business and looking for a guaranteed hourly wage.

How often, how much and how effectively you compliment yourself on the quality of your work comes into play as you figure out how much to charge — and feel good about it. You can fill your website with all the testimonials in the world, but if you don’t honestly believe that your work is valuable, then you’ll have difficulty building a nice profit into your fee structure.

Knowing how much to charge is a delicate balancing act that takes in all the variables. It’s not an easy answer and one that keeps many small business owners up at night. Experience and necessity, coupled with a healthy dose of self-approval, gets you to a place where you become comfortable with your rates — and clients will sense your determination and pay you accordingly.


Ray Access is a content marketing firm that delivers targeted words to empower your business to succeed. Contact us about your specific project to receive a quote. We write website copy, blog posts, e-newsletters, and more. Everything we do is thoroughly researched, professionally edited and guaranteed original.

The Cost of a Mistake

Minimize the Cost of a Mistake by Preparing

You need to believe in your professional self. That means you need to know that the quality of your work is well worth the price you charge. This is a tenet of the Top 10 Principles for Successful Website Creators, as proposed by Ray Access in October 2019. And while perfection is the ideal in any endeavor, particularly in your professional work, it’s largely a pipe dream.

Don't let the cost of a mistake send you to an early grave.

The cost of perfectionism is actually far worse than the cost of a mistake. According to an article in Psychology Today, being rigid and unforgiving leads to a host of personal and professional complications, including:

  • Reduced problem-solving skills
  • Depression
  • Anger
  • Insomnia
  • Procrastination
  • Anxiety
  • High blood pressure

Stress Not

Stressing out over the cost of a mistake violates the first tenet of the Principles of Success philosophy: Take care of yourself first. While the cost of a mistake may hit you financially, the cost to your health, overall well-being and ability to carry on despite setbacks is far worse. As novelist Anne Lamott beautifully says:

Perfectionism is the voice of the oppressor.

Setting extraordinarily high expectations for yourself and your employees — or for that matter, anyone in your life — only leads to eventual disappointment. Humans are fallible and will make mistakes. The key to a healthy lifestyle and a successful business is not to let cost of a mistake stress you to the point of illness, but to find the lesson in the error. Learning how to handle a mistake is far more important than avoiding mistakes at all costs.

Get ‘Er Done

Perfectionists too often end up putting off important projects or missing deadlines because they stress about achieving that loftiest of goals. As a result, nothing gets done or it takes twice as long to complete. Instead of falling into this trap, try to temper your need for perfection. Minimize the cost of a mistake by taking positive steps to admit and correct an error, honor your promises to clients and learn from the process.

Part of never missing a deadline is about knowing when your work is good enough. That doesn’t mean you can skimp on quality; it means you must keep your deadline in mind as you work. Meeting a deadline, despite small potential mistakes, is more important than keeping a client waiting.

Expectations in American Culture

Being a perfectionist is wrapped up in the American culture. And while the cost of a very large mistake may cost you a client, you can save the client relationship by learning how to handle a mistake, large or small. This tactic may help the future of your career as well.

Pride and ego often are the first to feel the blow when you’re caught with a mistake. And those often are the main culprits behind handling the situation poorly. But your clients and staff don’t really care about your ego and care even less that it’s been damaged. They care about results. As professor Brené Brown said:

Perfectionism is not the same thing as striving to be our best. Perfectionism is not about healthy achievement and growth; it’s a shield.

Make It Right

The cost of a mistake doesn’t have to mean the end of the world as you know it. It doesn’t have to translate into failure. The cost doesn’t even have to mean the end of a relationship. In fact, the strongest professional relationships are based on honesty and trust. Your best clients know that you’ll always do your best and take care of errors quickly and effectively.

Granted, it’s always best to take every precaution to avoid costly errors. Ray Access, for example, employs a stringent editing process before sending a finished project to a client. But instead of wallowing, giving up or beating your breast, take steps to rectify your error and reduce the cost of a mistake by:

  • Admitting your mistake and taking responsibility for it
  • Apologizing for the error
  • Allowing your client to vent without getting upset yourself
  • Giving your client time to think about a response
  • Listening to that response without getting defensive
  • Taking immediate action to fix the error — never at a charge!

Keep your clients happy. Let them know they can trust that you’ll do what you say. And make sure to follow up quickly when you make a mistake. Follow the sage advice of Benjamin Franklin to:

“Never ruin an apology with an excuse.”

 


Ray Access is a content marketing firm that delivers targeted words to empower your business to succeed. Contact us about your specific project to receive a quote. We write website copy, blog posts, e-newsletters, and more. Everything we do is thoroughly researched, professionally edited and guaranteed original.

Listen for Opportunity

Opportunity Comes from Many Places; Listen for It!

Climb to success in 2020; listen for opportunity to take you there!

Opportunity knocks more than once, contrary to the old adage. If you don’t grab an offer when it first appears, so the old saying goes, you’ll regret it because it will never come again. That’s just wrong. If you listen for opportunity and don’t grab it when it comes, you will have other chances as long as you keep listening.

Many people fear jumping at the first opportunity. It can lead to inertia and penalize you if you have any fears or doubts or lingering questions. But fear is a basic human instinct that allows us to survive. Doubts lead to more inspiration that provides even better opportunities. And questions give pause to answers.

Opportunity doesn’t knock just once in your life, but again and again. You just need to pay attention and closely listen for opportunity. And when you believe the time is right — take the leap, embrace the risk and reap the rewards.

Second Chances of 2019 Prove the Point

2019 was a year filled with second (and third and fourth) chances. Consider this short list of lost chances that led (or may lead) to greater success:

  • Despite trade wars and a presidential impeachment, which many thought would tank the U.S. economy, the stock market fared better than it has since 1997. Your 401(k), IRA and total financial portfolio fared best if you let your money ride after the great recession and gave the market its second chance.
  • Burger King has always carried a veggie burger that never really hit its stride for the company. But the fast food giant kept listening for opportunity and in 2019, launched the plant-based Impossible Whopper that proved a big win for the chain.
  • New York City closed the door on Amazon’s HQ2 in 2019 and didn’t listen for opportunity, instead listening to the fear of potential obstacles. But Arlington, VA kept its mind open and now has a second chance of becoming an even bigger fulfillment hub for the online retail giant.
  • Big retailers that previously made fortunes selling guns leapt at their second chance to make America safer by taking many of the most dangerous guns off their shelves.
  • Boeing tried to listen for opportunity by relying on their tech teams to manufacture new software for their 737 MAX and lost. By the end of the year, they are supremely positioned to make it right and go for a second chance with new leadership.
  • And big tech, from Google to Facebook, faced enormous challenges in 2019 that cost them dearly. Learning from their gaffs, they all now have a second chance to get their privacy measures up to snuff, and they’re already making changes.

And though it may not have been so groundbreaking, consider your own failures and how you succeeded in 2019. When you listen for opportunity again and again, you may have found that you:

  • Signed more clients despite the losses you sustained
  • Boosted your staff and raised pay to keep talented employees
  • Created marketing strategies that finally paid off
  • Invented new ways to deliver your goods and services
  • Encouraged innovation in the goods and services you offer
  • Continued to keep your doors open

Listen for Opportunities in 2020

Gamblers often say that if you leave the casino with the same amount of cash that you started with, you’re a winner. In the world of tech and small business, if you stayed in business through 2019, you’re a winner. According to the Small Business Administration (SBA), 30 percent of startups fail during their first two years of operation. 50 percent last five years and 66 percent go down before they reach the 10-year mark.

So you have plenty of reason to be optimistic if you’re still open for business! Watch trends, listen for opportunity from places that may have made you uncomfortable in the past and expect success. Attitude, after all, still plays a huge role in the success of your second (and third and fourth) tries. A few trends to watch in 2020 as you listen for opportunity to grow your business include:

  • Big business will continue to spend on IT, with outsourcing reaching record highs.
  • Tech trends that will continue to climb, especially in the areas of mobile computing, artificial intelligence, automation, social media, customer reviews, remote working, managed IT to resist an onslaught of hacking and user-friendly content that speaks the language of your customers.
  • With more bargaining power, expect the call for personalized customer service from clients who refuse to be put on hold and listen to AI for answers.
  • The short story will evolve as the king of marketing, bowing to the shortened attention spans of customers who want to understand your product or service, enjoy the story-telling aspect of a pitch and want all that in a flash.
  • More and more workers will join the gig economy and offer services on an as-needed basis. You can listen for opportunity and join the gig nation or look for exceptional talent in that population instead of hiring full or part-time employees.
  • With unemployment expected to remain low for the foreseeable future in 2020, expect workers to look for more perks and reasons to be happy with their employers. You’re going to have to meet those expectations or continue to experience worker shortages.
  • Video and voice will be bigger than ever as 5G emerges worldwide in 2020. Talk to your customers more as you listen for opportunity. They’ll tell you what they want if you listen!

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The Rewards of a Better Product or Service

The Benefits of Being Better Lead to Satisfaction

One of the benefits of being better is feeling like you're on the top of the world

You’d think that one of the most important benefits of being better than your competition is that you get more business. Clients, especially those that demand the best, recognize your value and flock to you for your services and products. As a result, you garner better reviews, gain more referrals and enjoy higher profits.

Or do you? Just because you believe you have the best product or service on the market — or in the world, for that matter — that doesn’t mean the marketplace agrees. Remember that customers don’t necessarily seek out the best every time they shop. Have you ever filled out an RFP? Haven’t you ever lost a big job because your prices were undercut by an inferior competitor?

The Real Benefits of Being Better

Feeling good about yourself and your offerings is an important aspect to consider when you’re seeking the rewards of success. You’re got to be able to sleep at night, knowing you’ve done your best and that you’re providing an exceptional service to your clients. More importantly, however, is the energy you exude that comes from passion. After all, no one achieves any level of reward by thinking great thoughts or having brilliant ideas when they have no follow up, no game or no action.

As business owners, web developers and project managers know, hard work wins the day. The most successful entrepreneurs — the creators of winning companies, people who believe in the benefits of being better — put enormous time and energy into developing their companies. Consider, for example, those who believed passionately in their skills and abilities to produce a better product and who ultimately reaped enormous rewards:

  • Mark Zuckerberg didn’t come up with any new, unique ideas, but he committed the time and imagination to tweak and refine his products. He actually saw the benefits of being better instead of just dreaming about them.
  • Steve Jobs was known for his all-consuming work ethic. He surrounded himself with employees who shared his desire to succeed through hard work.
  • Bill Gates was never afraid to challenge his own perception of perfection. He stayed true to his commitment to being better, to making his already successful products and services even better.
  • Vince Lombardi knew that the only way to true success was through hard work and dedication. He told his players that the benefits of being better come with wins and losses.

Perhaps Thomas Edison said it best when he extolled the virtues of a solid work ethic as the only way to reap the rewards and benefits of being better:

“Being busy does not always mean real work. The object of all work is production or accomplishment, and to either of these ends there must be forethought, system, planning, intelligence and honest purpose, as well as perspiration. Seeming to do is not doing.”

Smoother Business Practices

While business owners and project managers strive to achieve the rewards and benefits of being better — reaping the accolades and money that often comes with that distinction — other important benefits come with the power of passion and hard work, such as:

  • Creativity abounds, which drives continuous improvement
  • Knowledge and the need to know more spurs further innovation
  • Intelligent decisions inevitably lead to effective marketing and increased sales
  • Persistence carries the day even when motivation falters
  • Confidence grows with each small success
  • Winners who exhibit passion and values attract talented employees

Successful results bring in more referrals and attention than any amount of magic, luck or low prices. The true rewards of building a product or service come with time; they don’t appear overnight or in a vacuum. And whether you reach your ideal goals of success or not, you’ll sleep better at night, knowing you’ve reaped the true rewards of being the best you can be.


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How to Read Between the Business Lines

Aid Decision Making with Clear Communication

You well know that people don’t always say what they really mean. Very often, in fact, they’re two different things entirely. In many communication streams, both personal and professional, you have to pay close attention to learn the true meaning of the message.

Learn to read between the lines to get better at decision making

You don’t want to make a decision based on false assumptions, mixed messages or misunderstandings. And when the decision making affects your work, it’s vital that you develop a keen sense of when you not only need to hear the messages being conveyed, but also read between the lines.

Are You Talking to Me?

In a world rife with the communication obstacles of political correctness (PC), many business professionals rely on words that don’t really convey their true intent. This is especially true in larger corporations, where every email and memo carries with it the risk of offending someone. And the last thing any business owner wants is a lawsuit.

Decision making based on veiled comments or misguided attempts to hold the business’s Human Resources PC line can lead to faulty conclusions and bad business deals. Others who may be offended by incorrect word choices and incomplete communications include:

  • Managers
  • Employees
  • Vendors
  • Customers

What Did You Mean by That?

A few years ago in The Business Journal, writer Terry Brock suggested that engineers and techies would do well to develop a program that allowed you to see what people are actually thinking when they speak or write — kind of like Google does when it asks, “Did you mean…?” The real message could blink on the speaker’s forehead.

However, that may only happen in a science fiction show. In real life, it’s best to learn how to read between the lines, taking into account many more aspects of a communication besides just the words. For example, look for clues in the:

  • Timing. Are you getting a request from corporate the week before Christmas? Is a client asking for changes to his website the day before it’s supposed to go live? Is your best employee talking about leaving while he’s going through a bitter divorce? Taking into account the timing of the request affects your decision making on many fronts! But between the lines, it’s pretty safe to figure out the request comes fraught with haste, fear or stress.
  • Body language. Communication is 85 percent tone of voice and body language and only 15 percent words. This makes person-to-person contact so vital in business whenever possible. You’ll glean much more from your communications if you can see the speaker’s fidgetiness, avoidance, excitement or anger attached to the words being spoken. Your decision making then becomes more on-the-money.
  • Past interactions. If past performance is any indication of future proclivities, then you get a pretty good idea of what’s really going on. When considering various communications, remember what happened last time you got an order from that client, a direct memo from the home office or a standoffish comment from a staff member.
  • Other factors. People don’t live in a bubble, but instead are complicated, multi-faceted creatures. Sometimes, truly understanding another person means you have to do a little digging. Perhaps social media can give you some clues. Discreetly asking around may give you some insight into the motivations of another.

Decision Making 2.0

Whether you need to decide which project to take on, what deadlines are reasonable, who you need to fire and who just needs a little coaching, or what kind of response is needed, you do your best decision making when you’ve collected as much information as possible. You may never get it right all the time, but you definitely increase your batting average. You may even find that decision making becomes a little less stressful when you’re armed with an amped-up skillset that lets you successfully read between the lines.

A few added tips to hone those skills include:

  • Sleep on it. Before delving into vital decision making scenarios, wait a while to see if any new insights bubble up.
  • Read it over. Don’t reply to emails when you have an emotional reaction. And read your reply a few times before hitting Send.
  • Listen well. This is especially important during phone conversations when tone of voice conveys a lot of meaning to the words being spoken.
  • Listen to your gut. If something feels “hinky” or not quite straight-up, it probably is. The situation, and your decision, requires further investigation. Trust your instincts and ask questions.
  • Ask questions. The most straightforward, and very often the most useful, approach to getting at the truth is to just ask. You get nowhere fast when you rely on half-baked instructions or communications. The old adage, “garbage in — garbage out,” applies to even the best-intentioned communications that don’t really tell the whole story.

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